Handout 13
Talking with teenagers
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Why conflict resolution?
- Give positive feedback regularly.
- Explore an issue, looking for options and consequences rather than giving advice. Talk less and listen more.
- Don't remind them of past mistakes - if they make mistakes, have faith that they will do better next time.
- Let some things go by. Only argue over 'the big stuff'.
- Let them know they are special and loved.
- Help them set short-and long-term goals.
- Don't ask too many questions. When you do ask questions, explain why you are doing so.
- Set clear boundaries.
- Avoid giving ultimatums.