Children's loyalties are usually to their biological parents, regardless of how the parents behave. Children shouldn't be put in the situation where they are forced to divide their loyalties. Stresses for children in re-partnered families
Children who have only experienced growing up in one family may be anxious, excited about a new family situation and their involvement in it. Children's feelings in re-partnered families.
Parenting in a re-partnered family is different from parenting in a biological family. Different people have different parenting styles and this can be a source of stress for everyone involved. Parenting roles in the re-partnered family.
Money issues and changes to financial arrangements can often be the cause of stress in new relationships too. It's generally best to be open and honest with your new partner about your financial situation and discuss your mutual financial plans . By talking about money issues that may arise in advance, you will be better prepared to tackle them should they occur.
Try discussing these questions with your new partner.
There is help out there! The Community Services Directory provides information on community organisations nationwide that can provide you with assistance with many different issues.
Me and My Kids- Parenting from a distance (PDF 485k)
What about Me - Taking care of yourself (PDF 2.9M)
Me and My Money - Practical money ideas (PDF 691k)
Me, My Kids and My Ex - Building a workable relationship with the other parent (PDF 836k)